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Marijuana: Deciding to quit

Do you believe the warnings about marijuana?
Oronde didn’t. He hopes you can learn from his experience.

The earlier a young person uses marijuana the greater the risk for mental health problems later in life. This is proven in a survey of medical research.

But young people who’ve used marijuana say they already have noticed the drug’s negative affects.

Oronde noticed that marijuana affected his ability to focus in school. “I was too high to do anything,” He says. “I wasn’t into studying.”

Gradually, he started to think there might be a link between how he felt, and his use of marijuana. “It takes away your drive for life,” he says.

Oronde hung out on the streets with a group of guys that used drugs, were fighting and getting into trouble.

“My whole life just went horrible at that point,” he says. “I remember getting chased through parks by police. I got stripped search at the basketball court once.”

One night Oronde was leaving a party. They guy who walked out the door in front of him was shot and killed.

“Shots were fired and he just drops to the front porch bleeding,” he says. “If I had been the first one out that door I doubt I'd be here talking to you right now.”

That was Oronde’s wake up call. He had ignored his mother and dad’s pleas to talk with them and to stop running the streets. Now he knew he needed them.

“I thought they would just be tearing me down, yelling at me and screaming,” he says. “That's the main thing I pictured. But they just wanted to help me.”

Oronde and his parents talked about what it would take for Oronde to turn his life around. It wasn’t easy, but he quit using marijuana. He admitted that just to quit using marijuana wasn’t enough. He needed a plan.

“I made a list of all the things that I definitely had to change in order to make myself a better person,” he says. “For one thing, I definitely had to stop running with the wrong crowd. I had to try to leave the drinking and the drugs alone and try to do something with my life. I wasn't currently doing anything. I had no idea I was headed.”

With his parent’s support and guidance, Oronde enrolled in a training and education program called Job Corp.

“I'm currently taking computer technology,” he says. “ I know how to put a computer together by bits and pieces. My instructors love me. I've got plenty of friends. I'm doing well in all my classes. I never felt that I had options for my life before ‘til now.”

Oronde urges others who think marijuana is a harmless drug to look at the facts and remember his story.


Do you believe the warnings about marijuana?


Orondé


It's A Fact.
Marijuana is often considered a “low-risk” drug. A recent study shows that idea is wrong:

The incidence of mental illness among Americans 18 and older goes up from 8 percent to 12 percent for those who use marijuana. 1

For Americans 18 and older who have used marijuana before age 12 the rate of mental illness rises from 8 percent to 21 percent. 1

“Kids who start to use marijuana at a young age are much more likely to suffer serious, long-term mental health problems.” 2

Between 1990 and 2002, drug arrests went up by 450,000. Eighty-two percent of the increase was for marijuana. Seventy-nine percent was for marijuana possession alone. 3

Forty-five percent of the nation’s 1.5 million drug arrests each year are for marijuana. 4

Dealing With It.
Know and be honest with yourself about the risks involved in smoking marijuana.

Ask yourself: By your actions are you risking hurting yourself? Are you risking hurting people you love?

Trust your feelings. When your gut says no, listen to it.

Seek out friends with interests, beliefs, and values similar to your own.

Faced with a tough decision, consider the long-term consequences of your actions.


Hear more from Oronde in Boys on Bullying DVD/VHS

1, 2 National Survey on Drug Use and Health, Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration.
3, 4 Report by the Sentencing Project, Washington.